Most women are awful. I sometimes get ready for work at the gym in the morning after a workout. Today was something special. I spent 20 minutes listening the a back and forth between two vapid bitches.
There was a back and forth from everything to hating on girls that were supposedly their friends to what is considered an acceptable date or what a guy should spend. The most annoying was a girl hating on the bride in a wedding for which she was a bridesmaid. The comments were mean at best.
Now I remember why I have very few female friends. Those I am friends with have been around for a very long time, or there was some kind of spark between us. The problem is, I then end up having mostly guys as friends, which works, because they are easy. Well, that is what they would like you to think. In the last few months I have learned guys can be almost as bad. The only difference is that they will tell you shit to your face, which works for me.
The other sad thing is that even though I love my boys, they will never really understand you the way your best girl could. My therapist even told me that I need more women in my life. Which, is sort of funny considering my ex thinks I am a lesbian.
yea, that was a total ramble. Long story long, most women are terrible. The problem is that we need each other, so for those so very few of you who are my friends, I am eternally grateful. And to my boys, I love you, too, but in a different way. The beers and video games sort of way.
Anyway, if your bachelorette party is at Joe's Crab Shack this weekend, reconsider your bridal party.
*sigh*
ReplyDeleteThis bothers me. Women should like each other.
I read this great article by a woman from the Middle East. She had a lot to say about our clothing and the stress that Western men put women through to look thin and perfect, like a thirteen year old girl. But what stunned me, what won't leave my head, is that she had lived the majority of her life in a harem. She knew something Western women don't: how to love and appreciate other women.
I don't think it's that all women are shitty... or even that a majority of women are shitty to each other. I think that in Western culture, women are taught to view each other as the enemy - as the competition. Even your best girlfriend in the world is held in high regard because she has something that YOU lack. As much as we love our girlfriends, most of them are perfectly perfect in our eyes - esp. in that one element that we feel the most lacking.
It's gross. It keeps us from bonding together. From sharing notes. From supporting each other. Keeps the power out of our hands, because we're so consumed with making other women hate themselves.